Dating a Pisces Man and What You Should Know

Dating a Pisces Man: What you should know, why they may not be for you, but what can ultimately make them an ideal mate.

Dating a Pisces is an immersive world of instinct and emotion.

Being the last sign of the zodiac, the energy has embraced and experienced the other signs. An evolution that has granted the all-feeling fish the keys to divine love.

A pretty significant burden for the spiritually bent Pisces in the earthly realm’s material limitations.

The great news is that the evolved Pisces energy can express its perceived limitations with finesse through creative outlets. They understand that to swim the earthly crude currents, they must transcend the experience through service, imagination and creativity. They are the great masters of love on a high note, using their sensitivity for compassion or expressing universal truth, love and wisdom.

When discounted and aren’t fully acknowledged, the Pisces succumbs to the results of idealized disappointment. These individuals tend to attach much of their experiences to the ego. Ironically, with the vulnerability of dating and sharing one’s inner world, Pisces is one of the likelier signs to hide their true love and healthy, sensitive nature. This is especially true for the Pisces male.

The Difference Between Male and Female Pisces Energy

The difference comes down to the divine feminine and masculine energy represented and expressed by the planets and signs. No matter how woke we are about the inequalities of gender and the evolutions that come with, hormones still come into play. Women are sensitive by nature. We are genetically made to feel the rhythm of our bodies. Changing, reacting, and consistently attempting to neutralize the hormonal flux we experience. We meet the world with great sensitivity, on a maternal level, and with considered emotions compared to men. However, the divine feminine and masculine are within all of us. The idea is to maintain a balance through awareness.

Mars and Jupiter represent our masculine selves, while the Moon and Venus cover the feminine divine. We look to these planets to get a better idea of how a person operates on a personal level. For your Pisces mate, knowing these various parts can give you insight into what to look out for, why they may not be for you, but what can ultimately make them an ideal mate.

Instinct and Emotion in Balance

Open and loving, these sensitive types are the magical dust of the Universe, sprinkling their compassionate soul to the downtrodden. Without awareness or proper release, their sensitivity can create issues of boundaries. Accepting the world as is, their good nature can leave them vulnerable. By Pisces’ default, trust can turn into indifference, their light dimmed into depression. Their once rosy shade of experience is stained in dark shadows. Illusions, projections, and disappointments can be expressed and experienced when dating.

These issues can be more pronounced for the male Pisces in modern dating.

When being sincere about your feelings can leave you at a disadvantage, and when playing the game can seem like the better option, the yielding Pisces energy will tend to sway with the currents. Familiar with the stage at play, their all sensing powers will give you what they perceive or sense you need.

There is a kind of innocence here. Since Pisces are all about the ideal, creating beauty, and seeking harmony, the solution is to go with the flow. But, the energy can also turn manipulative.

Trying to appease you and avoiding conflict can create the famous illusions and deceptions they are known for when boundaries are erased, and balance is off. They ultimately seek safety when they have given more than they can. And have sacrificed themselves for the ideal or become avoidant to negate conflict.

Ironically, conflict is precisely what is created. Fertile grounds of illusion and vulnerability.

Like the qualities of the 12th house, what we hide from, we hide from ourselves. For the Pisces, it is their sensitive, emotional selves. They have given away their powers. The power of instinct is used to detect negativity and emotional vulnerability in others rather than see them for their light.

They can take on the Trickster Archetype. These are the ones you need to look out for. The ones that promise you the world but come empty-handed in the end. They talk a lot of game, keep your imagination running. Keyword imagination! They can charm the shit out of you. Sweeping you off your feet. If you’ve been raised on a high throne. Be wary.

Boundary Issues

Boundaries are crucial in a relationship. It shows respect, self-worth and individual growth, a challenge for the unifying sign when they are not operating at their optimal. If you feel that the relationship or the interaction has started to feel elusive and boundless, I’d check in on your own imaginary lines.

The Pisces wisdom knows the value of being detached and integrated. They are a balance of the Virgo and Pisces axis.

The rare ones operating on a highly evolved frequency are a force of nature. Unlike the Aries or Scorpio intensity, the Pisces magnetism is subtle. Their energy seeps into the environment undetected. Present, yet lost in the background. If you are lucky enough and with patience, you may just find one show up just at the edge of the water.

The Pisces man shows up with authentic charm, grace and consideration. They have balanced ego and spirit, aware that both personal qualities can co-exist. Tuned in to their rhythm(sensitivity, emotional intelligence), they flow with healthy boundaries.

Owning their sensitivity and understanding the power of their intuitive currents, they are both detached and integrated, connected their own needs and considerate about yours.

To fully grasp the Pisces Man, you also need to look at his Mars and Jupiter.

Mars

Depending on the expression of the sign, your Pisces Mars energy pursues or shrinks into intimidation when dating. His warrior energy tells you what he likes, desires, and will fight for. His gravitas is indicated by his Mars expression.

Pisces energy with a Mars in fire sign is forthcoming and social. Aggression is pulled back with an earthy Mars. Quality of patience and strategy exist, which can offset those empty promises, keeping them accountable.

Mars will also inflame Pisces’ charm or shape their sexual nature.

Mars in fire is attracted to the more open, extroverted type. Similarly, Mars in air is social, will talk up a storm and express passion and charm through words but can exacerbate the all-talk, no-action issue. Mars in water and earth will support the Pisces sensitive nature but may keep them hidden below the surface until they feel ready to emerge in their true light.

The difference between the elements is the earth signs shape, ground, and pacify their emotions into constructive, creative, healthy expressions. The watery influence can attache emotion with physical connection, but also make them irrational. A deluge of emotions that may seem tranquil as a lake or flowing like a stream, can suddenly turn into a devastating flood.

Jupiter

Jupiter is considered the husband or the type of husband your Pisces charmer can be. Like the 7th house, the sign can reveal his level of commitment.

Jupiter is strong in Pisces and will fortify Pisces’ general energy. Pisces’ love nature is expanded, along with creativity and compassion. This type of hubby generates inner wealth from openness, acceptance, and keen intuition. He committed to transcending your relationship to new highs and experiencing love beyond physical limitations. Be ready to explore worlds together through imagination and creativity. Some with Jupiter in Pisces will look for emotional connection.

He also does well in Sagittarius, with similar characteristics expressed in the creative sign of Pisces. The significant difference with the Archer is the pursuit of happiness is externally sought, on a social level. Jupiter is at its downfall in Virgo, and can stress more criticism and negativity in a relationship. But these people commit to providing and servicing their loved ones. Virgo’s are also known for their hard work and consistency. They can bring the spacey Pisces down to reality and integrate more practical solutions, giving purpose to their creativity and vast imaginations.

Jupiter in the fixed modality will have better stability and can indicate a commitment to goals, beliefs and what he ultimately pursues. For example, a Jupiter in Leo is guided by beliefs related to nobility and kingly status. He will want a queen by his side and will treat her to that high status. He has a kingdom to uphold and will want someone just as committed to help him maintain his royal gardens.

Jupiter in cardinal signs are guided by self-initiative. They navigate life pushing their beliefs, will, emotions and ideas. They will take the initiative to pursue you, especially with a forceful Mars. They will want to lead. These are the leaders of the zodiac and will want to outline their Jupiter beliefs in the relationship. Unlike the fixed modality, despite their dominant traits, they will yield when given a reason.

Jupiter also outlines philosophy, faith and beliefs. It is important to learn his mission in life. Having complementary goals and visions is something to consider if taking things on a more committed level. Jupiter in the fire signs are those who rarely plateau. They strive to grow and create new experiences. The fire energy believes in continually burning its force energy.

Jupiter in the air signs will bring in a need for interconnection. Constantly looking to expand social circles. They believe in growing through interactions with others. The two output signs will look to expand on a social level.

Jupiter in water will believe in connecting on emotional depth. They will want to grow and expand on an intimate level, with family, lovers or a higher self.

The earthy Ones will want to expand with more grounded, practical things. The more contained elements will look to settle on what is familiar, trustworthy and reliable. They will be happy to grow and cultivate within the known parameters.

Venus

His Venus will tell what he finds attractive in a woman, values in a relationship and how he carries his own beauty.

Venus in Pisces is the lover of all. Mostly bent on compassion, and can be at your service. But they can also be deceptive on a low note. For all watery Venus, they value the depth of connection and look for it in return. Their love language is a display of emotional bonding. Earthy Venus is all about the physical senses and finding beauty in the material, but can also turn superficial. Their love language is physical affection.

The airy types are drawn to the intellect and want words of confirmation but can become too detached and cold. A fire Venus will seek adventure and want to release its dynamic energy with physical activities. They are attracted to those that spark their own individual flare. A low vibrating fire Venus can be egotistical and selfish.

Houses

5th House

The 5th house of romance, sex and play will show their connection to their child-like self. This area of the chart reveals their choice of fun. When combined with strong Pisces energy, dating becomes a world of creative imagination–sometimes between the sheets.

A Rising Pisces in a whole chart would have Cancer energy in their 5th house. This would add to their emotional need to bond romantically and sexually. If this is the combination, your Pisces mate will undoubtedly be swimming in sentient waters. Those aligned and owning this area of life will have you splashing in warm seas. Choppy waters with pending, abrupt emotional storms will be experienced when your Pisces mate operates on a lower frequency.

7th and 8th House

Both a house of commitment, the difference between the 8th and the 7th is their depth of nature. The 7th house is external. Think Venus and Libra. The 8th is the part of us that burns in intense desire. Hidden or not, think of Mars, Pluto and Scorpio energy. But what is hidden can surface when two people turn intimate. In the 8th house of committed partnerships, bonding with another on a soul level, is when your Pisces mate inner qualities emerge.

If you’ve made it this far with your Pisces mate, you can begin to discover their deepest desires and psychological make-up. Whether they operate on pure ego or if they have transcended experience into a magical perspective. With the latter, there is a healthy sense of imagination and play, fertile grounds for your relationship to grow in love, respect and fascinating wonder.

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