Dating a Pisces Woman: What to Expect

Dating a Pisces Woman and Why You should Stay Away

Key Points

• An Intro to What to Expect When Dating a Pisces Woman
• The Importance of his Rising Sign
• What her Venus and Moon Reveal
• The Importance of his Mars Sign

This is a continuation of the recent post Dating a Pisces. To get a full overview of what to expect when dating the energy, please read Dating a Pisces before reading this post. You can also check-out Dating a Pisces Man.

Astrology is as complex as an individual personality. We are not one sign, we are all the signs. Different parts of our personality can be described by the qualities of the planets. The point is to integrate parts of ourselves into a unifying whole. I will describe the Pisces Woman to understand how the Pisces energy operates and is expressed through the male lens.

This post is a general overview, encompassing themes of Pisces emotions, affection, desires and sexual nature. No matter what planet the person has in Pisces, its intensity will be determined by that planet and the overall health of the chart. Thus, also determining the frequency of higher or lower expression.

The sensory experience felt with Pisces is full of wisdom. A heightened perception, instinctual with an open invitation to glide down her seas and surrender into expansive consciousness to blend with an energetic world bound to fascinate, titillate and discombobulate.

All structures blur, and definitions may dissolve in her divine cosmic oceans.

The Difference Between Male and Female Pisces Energy

The difference comes down to the divine feminine and masculine energy represented and expressed by the planets and signs. No matter how woke we are about the inequalities of gender and the evolutions that come with, hormones still come into play. Women are sensitive by nature. We are genetically made to feel the rhythm of our bodies. Changing, reacting, and consistently attempting to neutralize the hormonal flux we experience. We meet the world with great sensitivity, on a maternal level, and with considered emotions compared to men. However, the divine feminine and masculine are within all of us. The idea is to maintain a balance through awareness.

The different streams of Pisces’ personality can be heard, felt and imagined like notes on a bar or a colourful painting. She is the flower power child tuned into the divine language spoken in her bohemian tongue. The best way to describe her artsy embodiment is to stroll down a visually stimulating, fantastical world.

Rising Pisces —Use your imagination and she’ll appear dancing to a windpipe instrument, a soft string reverberating. The sounds are coming from a beautiful creature playing it from afar. Your vision blurred, the notes resounding your ear.

On a rock, tides splashing in, a beautiful sea creature plays a melodic tune. Your vision challenges the myth of mermaids. Angst rises from within, yet excitement also brews. You dip back into the waters, an urge to inch closer, but she is gone. As you hesitantly search for her, you wonder if it was all in your imagination. As uncertainty fills your mind, you feel splashes of water from behind. A scintillating red tail dives in. Your instinct is to follow.

Abstract World of Dating a Pisces Woman: A Melodic Stanza

Meeting a Pisces Woman for the first time is like being drawn into a Monet painting; your senses jump beyond what you are used to. You’ve been drawn into her enigmatic waters.

Like the mystical creature, there is ambiguity when first meeting a Pisces. Something you cannot grasp, making it all the more fascinating. Welcome to the abstract world of a Pisces woman. Her feet are grounded to reality if she has earthy solid or fixed energy in her chart. Otherwise, the right side up is her upside down, and the oxygen she breathes is the tides of her sixth sense. She may not even be aware of something so natural to her, let alone explain it. Attempts at translation would only be futile.

With such changing tides, what you see may be different from what you get. She can easily mould into a situation to keep the waters tranquil—easily hide her true colors, common in her earlier stages of life. You’ll find her lovely, no doubt. Who wouldn’t when you feel as if you’ve found someone who blends into your world so well.

Can you see her waters clearly, the depths and contents of her seabed? Anything can be found in her imaginative world. Usually not threatening, just watch out for things with spikes as skin or ink that stains your view.

To keep up with her is to surrender, be open and appreciate change.

If she hides her sensitivities and been told of its impracticalities, uselessness or weakness, it might drive her moods, going from low to high in rapid succession. When nurtured under healthy conditions, her view is a cinematic reel, streamed in her feminine flower power. Her compassionate lens will dominate, and will not take kindly to a cruel joke or tolerate rude, inconsiderate behaviour that rocks her tranquil waters. She will know whether to swim away or pull you further into her expansive fantastical kingdom.

Moon

Your Pisces nymph has mesmerized you to follow her down the depths and foreign waters of her personal life, her home and comforts.

The Moon’s qualities by sign are what nurture her. Through her luminary, she is embraced into comfort. Her place to retreat after a bad day, after everything has fallen into pieces or where she will relax to feel herself again.

A Moon in Pisces is like diving further into the ocean, where foreign and odd creatures and characters can be encountered. She is a highly imaginative person. Someone that has many reveries and was likely a daydreamer as a child. The health of her Moon will be determined by how well she expresses her emotions and how it allows for creative outlets. She has a need to assert herself through artistic or musical mediums.

Massaged by her imagination, her cinematic life is channelled to the divine. It can take you to faraway shores, an opened ended reality, yet there is a sense of familiarity. A creative realm fine-tuned to the pulse of the world, which gives her reason to find much quiet and alone time. Often acting as a vessel absorbing the world’s energy, facilitating universal love in a transcending artistic expression, her isolated chamber allows for residual energetic release. Without it, she can deplete her energy.

You are dealing with a highly receptive moon; the ideal response is to go with it. The waters are usually warm with occasional high tides.

Warning Bells When Dating a Pisces Woman

There is little certainty with your Pisces woman. Don’t be surprised at changes that play out as broken promises—especially true with strong Piscean energy in her chart. It is as if her words dissolve back into the ocean, forgetting they were uttered at all. Her exciting ideas can be magical dust, veiling you into an illusion. Her creative sensibility can get her into trouble. With innocence and naivete, she’ll have you believe in things that may never take breath in reality. An earthy or fixed Moon like Virgo or Leo can cultivate her ideals on stable grounds to grow, execute a promise into fruition or contain her imaginings into something tangible and concrete.

Venus 

You are now in her world. The expanse of its majestic beauty can easily overwhelm. Venus in Pisces is a heightened position for the goddess of love and beauty. Naively, innocently, she loves boundlessly. Finding stable or fixed signs in other areas of life will hem the energy in. But without it, things are a Hollywood scene, lines beautifully created but can be abandoned for the next inspiring project. The same goes for love with eyes that can wander elsewhere.

Being in a relationship with a Pisces Venus, let alone a Pisces energy takes an evolution of acceptance of what is and what isn’t and what might not be. The rules change, the waters can flip onto new grounds, and you stumble to new territory, sometimes realizing you’re no longer breathing oxygen. Once you’ve opened your eyes in clarity, the shimmer of her scales is a different tint. You might ask yourself if it was just a fairytale you wandered through as you search for the edges of the pages looking for an exit out of the illusion.

You may start to understand why a Pisces needs a breather. But you can also find yourself at the end of a story, with your emotional seas brimming in disappointment.

Other Warning Signs When Dating a Pisces Woman:

The once strikingly ethereal and angelic beauty that caught your eye and your imagination turned out to be flighty and unsure of herself.

A shapeshifter by nature, on high expression, she is doing it to please you based on genuine love. However, it can get concerning when it is on low expression. Sacrificing too much of her own needs, she veils her majestic power of intuition and abandons her sensitivity. Enough of it will destabilize her and heighten in unhealthy sensitivity. Full of illusions and deceptions that will eventually dry up sooner or later; they can be dangerous waters to swim in for both of you. What she hides, doesn’t release, or doesn’t express becomes a sponge that soaks up confusion and the stink in her scales. Her vast waters will be her own demise, in which she completely loses herself.

Mars

Can you swim distances in her imaginative world? Breath in the unknown and roll with each wave and the high tide of her emotions? At the cost of occasionally losing all sorts of earthly sensory or tangibility for spiritual awakenings and fulfillment?

Her Mars qualities by sign tell you what she is attracted to. The type of man that she finds sexually appealing. If she has a Mars in Pisces, she will be looking for her Merman, so to speak. Someone that will understand her Piscean language. Someone artistic and expressive with emotions. A kind and gracious soul.

If you have Mars in Pisces or strong Pisces energy, the two of you will get along swimmingly. There is high receptivity with your Piscean subtle force and her desire to let go and take things as they are. Mars is also what drives her. A flight or fight mode. What she is willing to put her energy in. She is passive and will want to be pursued and wooed.

Mars is weak in Pisces. Her actions, what to strive for and place effort in can be confusing and elusive. Boundaries and grounding her energy will require much effort to keep focus. Her desires can be all over the place, with fewer desires to possess and be possessed. She only pursues material comforts if other parts of her chart say otherwise. She can be a waterwork of emotions, lose control and lash out from uncertainty. To ground her is to be patient. To avoid her splashes of inner rage, she may need a co-pilot to direct her path and shape or contain her desires.

TakeAway Dating a Pisces Woman

You may have found your soulmate if you like the passive feminine energy who won’t be too pushy. She isn’t someone to be defined. Dating a Pisces woman means bracing yourself to shifting currents without holding on too tight to her slippery scales that are bound to squiggle out of your grasp. Dating a Pisces woman takes a bit of openness, acceptance and a love of the fantastical.

To stay up to date follow @astrowildchild